Hi! I'm going to share with you some of the well known courting tips. Some might agree, others might not, but I suggest just go over these tips and who knows you might learn a thing or two.
1. Make an Impression
Making an impression means not showing your interested the first time you meet the person. Most of the time when a guy meets a gal of his dreams, they immediately give in and show signs of affection. Sometimes it pays to hold back what you are feeling and be a little bit mysterious.
Presence! Presence! Presence! I can't emphasize it more. Just make sure that the girl you're courting knows that you're always there for her. You can do this by: (a) giving her a ride home, (b) talking to her at least once a day, the more you talk the better your chances are, (c) text her, just make sure that you ask open ended questions, those that are not answerable by simply a yes, no, alrighty, or K.
3. Listen Well and Listen Good
This is really important. It is by listening that you'll get the juiciest information you'll ever need. It is where you'll learn her likes and dislikes, hobbies and interests, what makes her happy or sad, and it is by knowing these minuscule details that your courting becomes a success. Most of us overlook this and fall short of expectation.
4. Be Creative
Be creative in your own little way. For example if all of her suitors are bringing her expensive gifts, dozens of flowers and imported chocolates, offer her something different like a simple choc nut plus your time, effort, thoughtfulness and a whole lot more.
5. Be Friendly, Befriend Everybody
When you're courting someone, you're not only courting one person you should also consider everybody around her like her friends, officemates, family members and especially her best friend. These people are important to her. They have great influence over her. By being close to them and letting them know more about you, you can get the assurance that will nod in your favor.
6. Make her Laugh
Humor "breaks the ice" and can help you get to know each other more easily. In making her laugh, proceed with caution. Don't tell jokes that are offensive or engage in topics that can make her feel offended.
7. Never say "Can I court you?" This is a big no-no. It takes away the mystery and the thrill of courtship. You'll immediately lose 50% of your chances. Look here's the thing, if a girl likes you it's fine and she might say "yes", but what if she doesn't that's when you lose your chances.
8. Be Honest and Sincere
Be honest to yourself don't be someone you are not, just be yourself. Next is being sincere with your intentions. By combining these two qualities you'll never go wrong especially when you're already proposing.
9. Timing is Everything
During courting, knowing when to do things is very critical. It is very important, from a simple knowing when to throw a joke to a more difficult planning when to propose. Knowing when the time is right is a personal decision. This is done after assessing yourself and the girl you're courting. You'll surely know it if the right moment comes. You just have to trust your instincts.
10. Patience is a virtue
Being patient is one quality that is taken for granted nowadays. In courting, patience is always the name of the game, which is why the courting phase and usually stretch from weeks or even months. Take your time, there are no shortcuts. All good things come for those who wait.
There you have it. I hope you enjoyed reading.
Always live a marvelous life!
Sometimes our best date night ideas stem from deep-seeded sense of what you know to be fun, exciting, and romantic. Other times, it may just mean you were able to be creative enough in clutch-time, and you pulled quite the rabbit out of the hat. Even if it was a little last-minute, being able to put together a memorable outing for you and someone special can be cute & romantic in and of itself. Maybe you’re a single guy, and you meet someone at a book store who also happens to be into science-fiction. You both like the same authors & whether it’s kismet or not, you want to keep the conversation going. Having a back-pocket filled with quick, yet very righteous, date ideas is essential.
For instance, don’t underestimate the power of bowling. It’s very unromantic, it’s familiar to just about everyone, and doesn’t depend on an alluring atmosphere to win over your date. Make the date more interesting by actually keeping score. The friendly competition can often spawn little treats such as the winner able to dictate the next place you both go to for a second date.
Maybe you and a special someone just need a night away from things. Why not go on a walk together. Sure, you both may jog in the morning and have earbuds lodged into your ears, but this time, you both are just sharing a stroll together. It’s simple and doesn’t require much in the way of planning. The key is being receptive to communicating. You might even learn a thing or two about your significant other.
End your walk with a treat. More and more sweet shops are opening up all over the country. You can choose from gourmet cupcakes, petit fours, chocolatiers, and even old-fashioned ice cream. Just about anything sweet will be the right way to end a couple’s stroll.
If you’ve met someone and think they are just the kind of person you’d like to have a cup of coffee with, why not actually have a cup of coffee together? Coffee is incredibly popular, and oddly enough, can be, figuratively speaking, a very sweet way to spend time with someone. Talk about work, art, pets, and literature. In this day and age, we rarely take time out to just sit and observe the world. If you’re taking a respite from the rush, why not make time with what could be a special someone over a cup of joe?
Perhaps you and your significant other like to stay in but are over just binge-watching TV shows. Why not set up your dining table as an ultimate gaming platform? Grab some fun games, have a few decks of cards, and you could even do a jigsaw puzzle. Just spending time together may be the part of the evening that’s most memorable, though being able to use Q and Z in the same word for maximum points could be pretty epic!
The best date night ideas come from a willingness to be creative and thoughtful. Even if you do wait a bit too long to make plans, your spontaneity can be quite the lovable quality. Just be sure you have a plan of some kind. Otherwise, you’ll just come off as being inconsiderate.